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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 3:11 pm 
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keirahunterxx wrote:
my latest profile update:Frequently Asked Questions...
Q. Do you do bareback? A. very firm NO! DONT even ask,as if you do,I will not accept booking from you and will share your adultwork details with other escorts and any punting related social media for health safety purposes to safeguard other members of public from your unsafe sexual preferences


Great, It'd be interesting to hear in a week or two if the problem has reduced.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 3:12 pm 
I do not share their full number on public board,if you havent noticed,it's only part of phone number. how many times i have to repeat that i can not physicaly otherwise inbox every escort working in sussex the details. I do not use their personal details such as name and surname,they still have their adultwork guise,I doubt any punter on adultwork creates membership and chooses his real name as USERNAME!


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 3:17 pm 
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keirahunterxx wrote:
my latest profile update:Frequently Asked Questions...
Q. Do you do bareback? A. very firm NO! DONT even ask,as if you do,I will not accept booking from you and will share your adultwork details with other escorts and any punting related social media for health safety purposes to safeguard other members of public from your unsafe sexual preferences


Great, It'd be interesting to hear in a week or two if the problem has reduced.
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it still doesnt eradicate problem that escorts face with friday ad,as friday ad is so stringent about wording, also when links are posted with bareback escort profiles,punters get to see phone number,adultwork or friday ad name,in some (if not most)cases their face picture. I want escorts to have same informed choice in regards weather to accept booking from punter that likes unsafe sexual practices,or not to accept as punters do in regards to escorts. So I will continue my informative work. don't like it,dont read it.


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 3:22 pm 
Interesting debate I would like to comment on a few things.
It is not necessary for a girl to say please don't ask for BB and it's interesting that I have been offered it by some of those girls that state don't ask could this be that they do do i or are they getting more guy's seeking it?
It would be better for AW to have a tick box of No's.
As the poll on BB is now quite old perhaps there should be a yearly one or even a monthly one where we can vote and state how many times we were offered BB in Jan, Feb, March etc. For the record I have only been offered BB this year by one girl whilst visiting this year out of the five I have seen.
Inquiries via AW have been 3 out of approx 40 I would only expect about one percent to be genuine bare backers.
I do believe there are girls out there that will bareback and not charge extra but there are more that advertise it openly that wouldn't dream of doing it unless with a regular to sell more PG's.
Some would say that OWO and CIM is wrong especially when the girl may kiss the next punter after taking a mouthful half hour before.


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 3:36 pm 
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Interesting debate I would like to comment on a few things.
It is not necessary for a girl to say please don't ask for BB and it's interesting that I have been offered it by some of those girls that state don't ask could this be that they do do i or are they getting more guy's seeking it?
It would be better for AW to have a tick box of No's.
As the poll on BB is now quite old perhaps there should be a yearly one or even a monthly one where we can vote and state how many times we were offered BB in Jan, Feb, March etc. For the record I have only been offered BB this year by one girl whilst visiting this year out of the five I have seen.
Inquiries via AW have been 3 out of approx 40 I would only expect about one percent to be genuine bare backers.
I do believe there are girls out there that will bareback and not charge extra but there are more that advertise it openly that wouldn't dream of doing it unless with a regular to sell more PG's.
Some would say that OWO and CIM is wrong especially when the girl may kiss the next punter after taking a mouthful half hour before.

sorry Tingley you are entitled to your opinion,but this thread is mainly aimed for escorts that want to stay safe and share details(even if not in full) of those punters that prefere or have approached girls with wanting to obtain extremely unsafe practise of bareback intercourse. there are plenty of pages here on sussexscene on girls that dont see this practice as dangerous. this page is not about girls,what they charge,or what other gain they get out of it. this page is for girls that do not wish to engage in such activity and safeguard themselves and other members of public as much as its possible by sharing information. thank you


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 5:48 pm 
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keirahunterxx wrote:
it still doesnt eradicate problem that escorts face with friday ad,as friday ad is so stringent about wording,


Do they have rules for the wording ?
It should be a matter of agreeing a suitable vague but informative set of words such as:
"All services carried out covered"
Or
"Protected only"
"Safe environment"

etc

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I want escorts to have same informed choice in regards weather to accept booking from punter that likes unsafe sexual practices,or not to accept as punters do in regards to escorts.


I don't think anybody should have a problem with that.


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 11:51 pm 
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annabelledelight wrote:
It's certainly starting to become a problem! It was rare that I would be asked for it and I think prior to approx 8 months ago I had only ever had one person ask. I've not had anyone from AW ask me, however the Friday-ad lots when I had my last ad up so I'm having a mini break from advertising via that medium.

Will message you for the full number, thanks honey XXX


You do clearly state in your AW profile that all activities are protected which is probably why you have never had anyone from AW ask for it.
A simple solution.


Yes on the whole the guys who take the time to ready my profile do see:
Q. Safe Practice A. I love to have a great time in bookings & I like to keep it safe so no un-covered oral, all sex practices protected including ALL toys used on you. Despite playing safe I also attend a clinic for regular check ups & suggest you do the same, see it as an all clear MOT!! :) OWO is lovely to give & receive but it's so easy to catch something & pass it on without any symptoms showing for a while, imagine explaining that to the Mrs! Safe fun without unwanted souvenirs of your time with me or other ladies!

Now for a little story from the past: I used to go to swingers events a good few years back way before I started working in the adult industry and I went to a private party with an ex partner who went off for a good hour or so with a lady and had protected virginal sex and plenty of OWO & reverse oral & when he attended the sexual health clinic for a routine check up a week after me, he was diagnosed with Gonorrhoea in his throat! We were living together so always used condoms for other partners when swinging but not OWO/RO at the time.

He was given antibiotics and I had to go and re-attended the clinic and asked what form of treatment they would give if I had it. I was told a single injection in the buttock so I opted to ask if they could just give it to me rather then wait for results & have to go back a 3rd time. They said that they were happy to do this considering my partner had it and would have suggested it themselves. So a quick jab and off I went home whilst the ex had to take a whole course of oral meds! He attended a different clinic to me. I was given the all clear from the clinic so I had the antibiotic injection and was fit & healthy, which was sort of annoying but I was glad that my tests were negative. It spoilt the sex life I had with the ex as I had to wait until he was given the all clear and it made us take a good luck at what we were doing with other people and start to play a lot more safely.

Back to topic, I'm all for sharing information in this public forum on the men who request BB to help other WG's, whilst us ladies have a stage name as Keira has already said then the gents real full name is never going to be made public it is his punting hobby name.

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 27, 2014 6:17 am 
Thank's Annabelle for sharing that information it just shows that safe sex and oral covered is the only way to be safe.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 12:36 am 
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I really think this is a bit flawed and could lead to all sorts of people being unfairly branded. If you follow feedback trails you can link all sorts of people back to BBers.

PLus, what about when escorts change their 'Enjoys' to add bareback?

A very reputable member of SS got shafted by that a couple of years ago. He booked an escort who didn't offer BB and feedbacked her. Then she started offering BB and several escorts blocked him. That's unfair.

Keira - I know you take your health very seriously and feel very strongly about the bareback thing but, for example, I note you saw a gent recently who had just previously seen Hove barebacker English Pussy / Ella Cum - http://www.adultwork.com/dlgViewRatings ... ID=2362145 . Probably she wasn't offering BB at that time but it illustrates the point.

To me the important thing is that we all use condoms when we punt. As long as we use condoms then we stay safe. Whether somebody offers BB or not, we never know that they have got up to in the past and in their private life.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 12:43 am 
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I really think this is a bit flawed and could lead to all sorts of people being unfairly branded. If you follow feedback trails you can link all sorts of people back to BBers.

PLus, what about when escorts change their 'Enjoys' to add bareback?

A very reputable member of SS got shafted by that a couple of years ago. He booked an escort who didn't offer BB and feedbacked her. Then she started offering BB and several escorts blocked him. That's unfair.

Keira - I know you take your health very seriously and feel very strongly about the bareback thing but, for example, I note you saw a gent recently who had just previously seen Hove barebacker English Pussy / Ella Cum - http://www.adultwork.com/dlgViewRatings ... ID=2362145 . Probably she wasn't offering BB at that time but it illustrates the point.

fair point,as I say I cannot track down everyone,as that would leave me with no time to work,did he actually mention in her feedback,that he indulged in BB activities with her,if not,although she is a barebacker he might have not taken her offer and had protected sex with her. I would only put on the block list guys that have left feedback that they have actually had that particular service,but as I say there are flaws with it as I cannot track everyone down,or keep up with their punts. physically impossible. just checked the feedback he has left for her and there are no such activity described,and he never asked me for such services,if he did he would have felt my stilletto heel in his gonads,not a positive feedback


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 1:01 am 
I didnt have a clue that sussexscene members don't feel the same way about barebackers,or if they do,it all seems one sided. if a girls do it- they get marked,pictures,links etc. pages and pages of topics on sussexscene dedicated to them,but when it comes to punters it's hush hush,for fucks sake!!!! you'll defend their privacy,even username privacy till the page starts to bleed! that's what makes me really angry, surprised escorts are allowed to post their opinion if it's less than flattering to punters,that's if their brave enough and dont get constantly challenged about their opinion on punters. seems like the only thing we're allowed to do without being reciprocated is to lick your arse and bollox or offer discounts,excuse the pun.
really makes me sick. why did I even come back to the forum


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 1:04 am 
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Why don't we have a 'safe sex' / 'safe punting' week on SS shortly. When we remind everyone of the risks and nasties that are out there , and warn people of the risks of unprotected sex.

Also, try and persuade more men to visit clinics for free, anonymous STI testing and provide details of the clinics in Sussex they can attend.

In our poll, 45% of punter members admit they have never gone to a clinic to get tested. To me, that's a bit worrying.

The poll is here - viewtopic.php?f=105&t=3743


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 1:10 am 
barebacker girls-ewwww,dirty,disgusting lets warn people,provide pictures,links etc,warn people by creating pages and pages of it
bareback punters- oh,what a nice weather ,isn't it,names,what names?,next topic! smooth it over with another poll,topic etc. there you go,short and sweet ,sums the forum up nicely! fucking disgusted!


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2014 1:19 am 
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Why don't we have a 'safe sex' / 'safe punting' week on SS shortly. When we remind everyone of the risks and nasties that are out there , and warn people of the risks of unprotected sex.

Also, try and persuade more men to visit clinics for free, anonymous STI testing and provide details of the clinics in Sussex they can attend.

In our poll, 45% of punter members admit they have never gone to a clinic to get tested. To me, that's a bit worrying.

The poll is here - http://www.sussexscene.com/main/viewtop ... 105&t=3743

to me more worrying is that 30% of sussexscene members ,according to poll would accept bareback if offered. no wonder my attempts for this page were met with such a vengence!!!!!!!


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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2014 9:23 am 
Hi Keira, what other things would you out punters over? to start sharing peoples details who contacted you in private over BB is the start, then when something else has upset you you will share other stuff? your posting style would put anyone off contacting you, I feel you will end up like the other escort on mumsnet that used adultwork to help wives catch their husbands out because she decided she didn't like the principle of married men cheating?


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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2014 10:21 am 
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coastman wrote:
Why don't we have a 'safe sex' / 'safe punting' week on SS shortly. When we remind everyone of the risks and nasties that are out there , and warn people of the risks of unprotected sex.

Also, try and persuade more men to visit clinics for free, anonymous STI testing and provide details of the clinics in Sussex they can attend.

In our poll, 45% of punter members admit they have never gone to a clinic to get tested. To me, that's a bit worrying.

The poll is here - http://www.sussexscene.com/main/viewtop ... 105&t=3743


Im liking this idea. Wouldnt hurt if there was more awareness.

We are all involved in a risky business/pastime. These risks can be limited with knowledge and education. We make our own personal choices but these do impact on others. If we partake in bareback then we risk STI's at the very least, these can be with you a long time and passed on to others. I offer OWO and am happy to do OW. I know there are risks involved with this, its a choice Ive made which could have an impact on me and others. So far in my escorting life it hasn't. I go to the GUM clinic on a regular basis and always get a full check up, including mouth and throat swaps.

I wouldn't know, unless they told me, that a client had previously barebacked . If they did tell me how would I feel? Id give them a nice telling off and proceed with the booking using my normal precautions, but would probably only do OW. No guy has ever told me they have done this, and probably wont. If a guy contacted me via AW and his likes showed bareback would I see him? No. Why? Because I know beforehand that he has likely done bareback and I don't want the risk. How would I feel if guys were publicly named and shamed for doing bareback? The girls get this treatment, so why not the guys? However, a guy can more easily change his profile name. It could easily turn into a witch hunt which does no one any good.

In my opinion we need to educate from within the sex industry, and forums like this can help. Apologies for the long ramble, I should be doing the ironing :lolol:

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2014 3:53 pm 
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Penny wrote:
I wouldn't know, unless they told me, that a client had previously barebacked . If they did tell me how would I feel? Id give them a nice telling off and proceed with the booking using my normal precautions, but would probably only do OW. No guy has ever told me they have done this, and probably wont.


You could just quietly ask at the beginning of the punt if they have kids ?
That'd tell you if they have ever barebacked !

Or are there limits to BB that are acceptable ?

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In my opinion we need to educate from within the sex industry, and forums like this can help.


I agree a new thread with facts and figures for the various risks could be of use to many.

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Apologies for the long ramble, I should be doing the ironing :lolol:

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2014 6:57 pm 
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For sure, it's sure not the smartest thing to do ... It's very stupid.

But I think those that do - do it (myself included) .. there are varying degrees of barebacking stupidity. Bare backers I think are in 2 categories.

i) Those that would bareback anything and everything for the lowest price. They're the ones that completely stupid and devoid of any comprehension.

ii) Those that are very choosy, regularly test, avoid cheap girls (like myself) - are still stupid, no argument .. but they're just not as stupid to the extent as as i).


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For sure, it's sure not the smartest thing to do ... It's very stupid.

But I think those that do - do it (myself included) .. there are varying degrees of barebacking stupidity. Bare backers I think are in 2 categories.

i) Those that would bareback anything and everything for the lowest price. They're the ones that completely stupid and devoid of any comprehension.

ii) Those that are very choosy, regularly test, avoid cheap girls (like myself) - are still stupid, no argument .. but they're just not as stupid to the extent as as i).


Ahhh so if we avoid "cheap girls" then we will be fine, the risks will be less...............Utter rot
£30 streetwalker with a habit to feed, or a £1000 "elite escort" if they BB, then you have a FAR GREATER RISK-Don't kid yourself that money buys any reduction transmission of disease. Everyone is entitled to gamble if they so choose, but the odds don't change just because you bet more. Good Luck


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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2014 7:27 pm 
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Ahhh so if we avoid "cheap girls" then we will be fine, the risks will be less...............Utter rot
£30 streetwalker with a habit to feed, or a £1000 "elite escort" if they BB, then you have a FAR GREATER RISK-Don't kid yourself that money buys any reduction transmission of disease.


Imho re: the "elite escort" it's seems a logical conclusion that the risks are statistically lower than a "£30 street walker with a habit to feed"


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