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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 3:14 pm

    My gf does everything that I have to pay a WG to do – for free. And 9 times out of 10 she does it a lot better. Not only that, but she’s much more beautiful than any of the WGs I’ve seen here in the UK – and she likes getting me off. Why is it then that I feel compelled to pay for it with other, less attractive women?

    Anyone else here pay less attractive women to do the same things your wife/gf does willingly? Surely I can’t be the only one.
    I don’t know if I’d be better spending my hooker money on a shrink. 😕

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    From: gordonfreeman
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 3:41 pm

    I guess it could be any number for things. Do you fear being caught out by your other half? Is that part of the thrill? Do you do it just because you can or is it just variety you want? There is something in evolution theory about men spreading themselves around to increase the chances of multiplying. It depends I think on how you feel before during and after a punt. You may just be addicted to the buzz of a punt itself. I suspect you aren’t the only one out there.

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 4:11 pm

    I’m not fussed about being caught out because she knows I do it anyway. (Although she doesn’t know how much.) I think it must be the variety, spreading your seed around thing because I don’t usually have much of a buzz after a punt. I’m more likely to be just thinking, ‘WTF did you spend all that money for, you daft twat?’ Not being an alcoholic, or compulsive gambler I can’t say for sure, but I wonder if it’s something like that.

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    From: funkychicken
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 5:09 pm

    Maybe the feeling that you are not tied to one woman that you still have your freedom

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 6:09 pm

    Yeah there’s probably a bit of that.

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    From: deloreangrooves
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 7:52 pm

    There could be a million reasons. If it bothers you, counselling would probably help, but it’d turn out to be more expensive than punting. It’s an interesting thread though. Why do you think you do it? From everything you say, it makes no rational sense at all.

    But then us humans are only partly rational.

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    From: gordonfreeman
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 10:43 pm

    I suppose that there is also the possibility that you punt for a deeper reason. Some people for example put themselves in the same situations to prove something or to repeat a life script belief. What do you believe about yourself? What goes on inside you when you have the desire to punt? Deep stuff.

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    From: cm15
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 11:06 pm

    Private counselling is only £40-£50 a session. One session a week would probably work out cheaper than punting!!

    I thought most men punted for 1 of 3 reasons:

    1. In a relationship (wife/partner) but one that is now non-sexual and they still need/want sex.
    2. In a relationship (wife/partner) but wife/partner won’t do what they want sexually. Or man is too shy to share his fetish/desires with his wife/partner so gets his kicks on the side.
    3. Man is single but needs/wants sex.

    If you’ve got what you want/need at home on tap then I don’t understand why you’d pay for it.

    All I can think is that it’s about the buzz of paying for it or a punting addiction or else a need for variety. Is your partner interested in swinging. i.e. get the variety without paying for it?

    When I was in a loving, fulfilling, sexual relationship it never even crossed my mind to punt. Well, I did it once but it was a ‘revenge punt’ after a row and I couldn’t enjoy it.

    Maybe it’s an addiction to the act of punting rather than a need for the sex – number 7 in the list below.

    The 9 different types of punter are here – viewtopic.php?f=117&t=1548

    1. The client whose partner won’t do what he wants sexually (Self explanatory)
    2. The frequent business traveller (High flyers who travel a lot and regularly stay in hotels)
    3. The marginalised (For example, men who are disabled or obese)
    4. The celebrator (The man who has won some money, got a bonus at work or had other good news)
    5. The virgin (Men who want to lose their virginity and gain sexual experience)
    6. The fetishist (Clients with fetishes they only feel able to indulge with escorts, eg. hardsports)
    7. The escort addict (Men who are habitual punters. Usually members of websites like this!)
    8. The lonely (Widowed, divorced or too shy to form relationships)
    9. The misogynist/psycho (Verbal and physical abusers. May try and con or rob the escort.)

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    From: Keira Hunter
    Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2017 11:10 pm

    You forgot the bug chasers that get off on risk and ask for bareback. Or the ones that get off on the thought they think they can buy anything for money,though these normally fall into abusive category anyways

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 8:21 am

    It’s nothing to do with risk or abuse of power. Don’t ruin this thread.

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 8:39 am

    cm15 wrote:
    Private counselling is only £40-£50 a session. One session a week would probably work out cheaper than punting!!

    I thought most men punted for 1 of 3 reasons:

    1. In a relationship (wife/partner) but one that is now non-sexual and they still need/want sex.
    2. In a relationship (wife/partner) but wife/partner won’t do what they want sexually. Or man is too shy to share his fetish/desires with his wife/partner so gets his kicks on the side.
    3. Man is single but needs/wants sex.

    If you’ve got what you want/need at home on tap then I don’t understand why you’d pay for it.

    All I can think is that it’s about the buzz of paying for it or a punting addiction or else a need for variety. Is your partner interested in swinging. i.e. get the variety without paying for it?

    When I was in a loving, fulfilling, sexual relationship it never even crossed my mind to punt. Well, I did it once but it was a ‘revenge punt’ after a row and I couldn’t enjoy it.

    Maybe it’s an addiction to the act of punting rather than a need for the sex – number 7 in the list below.

    The 9 different types of punter are here – viewtopic.php?f=117&t=1548

    1. The client whose partner won’t do what he wants sexually (Self explanatory)
    2. The frequent business traveller (High flyers who travel a lot and regularly stay in hotels)
    3. The marginalised (For example, men who are disabled or obese)
    4. The celebrator (The man who has won some money, got a bonus at work or had other good news)
    5. The virgin (Men who want to lose their virginity and gain sexual experience)
    6. The fetishist (Clients with fetishes they only feel able to indulge with escorts, eg. hardsports)
    7. The escort addict (Men who are habitual punters. Usually members of websites like this!)
    8. The lonely (Widowed, divorced or too shy to form relationships)
    9. The misogynist/psycho (Verbal and physical abusers. May try and con or rob the escort.)

    Of all of those I’d say the need for variety is closest. No one gets excited about eating the same dinner every night for years, do they? Also, to continue the food metaphor, there’s an urge to find the ‘best’ restaurant or see what all the fuss is about with the latest celebrated chef.
    One hopes that people who provide sexual release for a living would have perfected techniques that ‘civilians’ haven’t even thought of.
    Sadly, IMHO, this is usually not the case and amateurs give just as good a bunk up as pros. Over the decades there have been a handful of times when a sex worker has blown my mind – but the incidence is vanishingly rare. My experience has been better in places like Brazil and Thailand – but that could be more to do with the fact that it’s very difficult to not have a great time with four beautiful girls in one bed.

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 9:01 am

    Repeating a life script sounds plausible. When I was young I was quite successful in a business which tends to attract groupies. From an early age, sex was something I was used to being offered by multiple willing partners. Now, that life ended a long time ago but the expectations remain – even though I know better.

    No one who looks like I do now and isn’t hugely famous can expect streams of attractive females to throw themselves at you – and yet deep down you sort of still do.
    In the UK, the illusion doesn’t work as well as in places like Thailand or Brazil – where the sex workers tend to resemble the young, enthusiastic girls I remember. Nevertheless, most weeks I still pay someone I don’t fancy to do something they’re not really into and aren’t terribly good at.

    Anyway. Thanks for the therapy, Gordon. Stay safe in Black Mesa!

    The biggest surprise in this thread is that my experience seems to be unique. I find that difficult to believe.

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    From: wembley
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 9:12 am

    You’re chasing a buzz you’ll never quite find.

    It’s not a lot different to walking into Coral’s today, smiling at the girl behind the counter, who’ll smile back even more fondly when she realises you’ve not come in to to play the crack machine AKA a FOBT, and put just £1 to win at 5/4 on Mary Eleanor in the 2.15 at Newcastle and walk out after the race, assuming Richard Johnson does his job piloting it home, with a whole £2.25 in your pocket and feeling so much better for it, simply because you’ve done what you wanted to do and you’ve won. Though as you head back out onto the street and the real world, what have you won? Do you really feel better?

    Don’t look for logic where logic doesn’t exist. Sometimes we just have to do something a little bit different. For example at half-time at The Amex on occasions, I order and neck 2 pints of Harvey’s. It’s not because I like it, it’s not because I need it, it’s not even because I want it – it’s simply because I can.

    Henry Olusegun Adeola Samuel aka Seal sums it all up.

    But we’re never gonna survive unless we get a little crazy

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    From: Keira Hunter
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 9:30 am

    Well you’d fucking know best the reasons behind your bugchasing in Thailand

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 10:40 am

    From: Keira Hunter
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 9:30 am

    Well you’d fucking know best the reasons behind your bugchasing in Thailand

    One thing I do worry about is the effect sex work has on those who provide it. This is why I usually try to see women that have reviews referencing their good nature or kindness – on the assumption that they are at least happy in their work. On this forum you are the poster child for the opposite of that – of what we all fear sex work can do to a particular type of personality.
    All you do is threaten or abuse people until they leave the forum, or slander random punters and WGs for being abusive, disgusting or immoral or post pictures of yourself exulting in being abused and beaten black and blue. If I see a thread – any thread, about anything – with your name appended to it I can know as a matter of certainty that it will descend into abuse and unpleasantness. Every time. Do you not see a pattern here? Do you not the the person obsessed with abuse is you?

    I know in your mind you’re fearless and brave and exciting but in reality you’re a small, disturbed woman whose life is defined by abuse. The sort of prostitute people who campaign against prostitution think prostitutes are like.

    You rant and rage against escorts and customers alike – so much so that the attacks and accusations have become meaningless noise. Indeed they almost become recommendations: whomever you hate is almost certainly a nice, non-abusive person. I’ve seen a couple of the women you’ve attacked on this forum and guess what? They’re very nice. When they met me they thought I was very nice, too. We were amused at how you had brought us together. Being attacked by you is as good a guarantee of someone’s good nature as it’s possible to get online. So, thank you for helping nice people find each other.

    Anyway. I’m going to again suggest that you you get help (which I know is fruitless because it’s not you, it’s everybody else right?) and again pop you and your aliases back on ignore (which is awesome).

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 10:43 am

    wembley wrote:
    You’re chasing a buzz you’ll never quite find.

    It’s not a lot different to walking into Coral’s today, smiling at the girl behind the counter, who’ll smile back even more fondly when she realises you’ve not come in to to play the crack machine AKA a FOBT, and put just £1 to win at 5/4 on Mary Eleanor in the 2.15 at Newcastle and walk out after the race, assuming Richard Johnson does his job piloting it home, with a whole £2.25 in your pocket and feeling so much better for it, simply because you’ve done what you wanted to do and you’ve won. Though as you head back out onto the street and the real world, what have you won? Do you really feel better?

    Don’t look for logic where logic doesn’t exist. Sometimes we just have to do something a little bit different. For example at half-time at The Amex on occasions, I order and neck 2 pints of Harvey’s. It’s not because I like it, it’s not because I need it, it’s not even because I want it – it’s simply because I can.

    Henry Olusegun Adeola Samuel aka Seal sums it all up.

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    But we’re never gonna survive unless we get a little crazy

    Yes I think you’re right. Your Harvey’s are my hookers. Or something.
    God it’s all so meaningless isn’t it?

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    From: Mark881k
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 10:46 am

    I punt because I’m a horrible person with deep psychological issues and nobody likes me.
    It’s the only time people are ever nice to me.

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    From: wembley
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 11:05 am

    3monkeys wrote:
    Yes I think you’re right. Your Harvey’s are my hookers. Or something.
    God it’s all so meaningless isn’t it?

    It is, but then if it was we wouldn’t do it either. It’s a total paradox without real logic. I’m not taking a moral standpoint here, just a statement of fact in that I’ve never punted whilst in a relationship. An ex-girlfriend of mine was by far the best at sex than anyone I’ve encountered – but I never got that buzz, like you do with punting, beforehand though.

    A couple of quite exquisite pints of Guinness yesterday in a pub in Hastings Old Town, served by a gorgeous, charming middle-class barmaid on a gap year, whilst reading The Times………….a couple of overpriced, warm and quite frankly mediocre pints of bitter, otherwise known as Harvey’s Best, served in a plastic glass and rushed down at football beats that every-time.

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    From:Keira Hunter
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 11:27 am

    Wow, what a heartfelt rant, what an effort. You had me in tears. Bring out the violins. :rofl: what is abuse? Where have I abused poor little you on this thread? I highlighted there are bugchasing punters asking for bareback and you’re the one that responded cause the shoe fits? I shouldn’t have called you bugchaser after you admitted barebacking prostitutes in Thailand? why I’m very sorry I brought it to light, it’s just that I thought you’re still very proud of it. :rofl: I’m not a nice person? Let me put that straight once and for all so that you don’t have any illusions,I never will be to barebacking punters and for love of my life can’t see why I should be. Cheerio :)!

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    From: 3monkeys
    Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 11:46 am

    wembley wrote:

    3monkeys wrote:
    Yes I think you’re right. Your Harvey’s are my hookers. Or something.
    God it’s all so meaningless isn’t it?

    It is, but then if it was we wouldn’t do it either. It’s a total paradox without real logic. I’m not taking a moral standpoint here, just a statement of fact in that I’ve never punted whilst in a relationship. An ex-girlfriend of mine was by far the best at sex than anyone I’ve encountered – but I never got that buzz, like you do with punting, beforehand though.

    A couple of quite exquisite pints of Guinness yesterday in a pub in Hastings Old Town, served by a gorgeous, charming middle-class barmaid on a gap year, whilst reading The Times………….a couple of overpriced, warm and quite frankly mediocre pints of bitter, otherwise known as Harvey’s Best, served in a plastic glass and rushed down at football beats that every-time.

    I quite like the sound of that bar-maid.

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